Welcome to Quintessential Dad!
My name is Ben and I want to introduce the Quintessential Dad philosophy firstly by providing some background about myself and my reasons for writing this blog.
I am an average Aussie bloke with a good job, perfect wife and two beautiful baby girls (eldest is 4 years old and the youngest is 1 year old). I have an electrical trade background however after pursuing a number of opportunities I am currently working in the civil construction field as a cadet engineer whilst undertaking part time studies externally.
My life, like many other blokes, is busy.
We had our first child early in our relationship before we were married (which caused some angst amongst the more conservative members of our extended families). When we made the decision to have a baby after being together for only 4 months, we were young, in-love and frankly, had no idea what we were doing.
After two kids, getting married, FIFO work, moving all over the country side, financial pressures, suffering grief and a plethora of stress; our relationship has never been stronger.
That doesn’t mean we haven’t faced significant challenges during our journey so far. At times our relationship has been strained and we have each suffered personally with various internal battles. As a result, I have learnt a lot of valuable lessons which I can’t wait to share via this blog with the intention of provoking discussion and feedback.
About This Blog
I decided to start this blog primarily to help other dads with the day-to-day struggles of balancing work, parenthood your relationship and all of the other things that life tends to throw at us whilst also providing some comical relief.
When expecting a new baby, the focus is undoubtedly on Mum and Bub. Rightfully so, I might add. Unfortunately, this means poor old Dad can tend to forget to look after himself leading to a downfall in physical and mental wellbeing.
Although it’s the most rewarding thing I have ever done, parenting is a tough gig. This blog aims to support dads, facilitate sharing of experiences, encourage health and wellbeing and most of all highlight the wonders of your role to those influenceable young minds and the rewards that brings.
Ultimately, this blog aims to embrace those things that make us quintessentially dads.
The Quintessential Dad Philosophy
My vision for the Quintessential Dad Blog is to become that central hub, fostering a community of blokes who have a sense of humour and want to become better. The aim is to shine a light on issues that blokes face on a daily basis and helping to address the issues.
If reading this or any of my other blog posts is resonating with you, please reach out. I’d love to share other bloke’s stories and experiences or collaborate on topics of interest.
(Founder, Quintessential Dad)